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Clothing and Swimming with an Ostomy

Clothing

Is it possible that tight clothing (stretch jeans) would be harmful for an iliostomy?


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Jeans

Have had my Ostomy since the end of July. Still trying to figure out how to wear my jeans. Any ideas? I'm not into hipsters by the way.


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Swimming and diet

Hello there, everyone. Once again I'm compelled to ask a question about how some of you handle a particular situation, i.e swimming. My mother had irreversible illeostomy surgery almost 2 years ago. Before she had the surgery, she enjoyed going to the local YMCA to swim. During the first year, she had some accidents, in the form of the bag leaking, or falling off. She now thinks she can no longer swim, and she actually started to cry about this, recently. Do any of you swim? I'm sur...


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Clothing product to cover ostomy bag under clothes

Hi, I have read several different posts in which people reccomend different yummie tummie products, spanx products, and other things such as this. I am not sure which one to get or which one works best and these are things I dont think you can try on. My main issue is that when my bag starts to fill up its all at the bottom area and getting fatter and fatter. also when I wear jeans the surgeon and wcon said to make sure the stoma is above the jeans which is fine but Sometimes it doesnt work as w...


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Important question about clothing

Hi, I have to go to a baby naming in a week and a half and I am very nervous about what to wear. These are all family but they all live out of state, and I havent seen any of them since before the surgery in May. My bag tends to have everything go to the bottom than get really fat, and I dont want it to be too noticeable. I have worn things that I thought would be fine and its looked like I have had an erect penis and I am a girl. I found a dress that would work but I wear the bag horizontial,...


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Swimming

Was in my daughters swimming pool for 2-3 hrs last Sat. First time in 3 yrs since my stoma was installed. It was Great. My wafer is fine, as a matter of fact, I am still wearing the same one today, (Wed). So C'mon people...Enjoy yourselves!!!


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Swimming with dolphins

going to Nassau and really want to swim with the dolphins, I have a colostomy any suggestions


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Underwear

I decided I was fed up with my stoma sticking out like a sore thumb, I kept thinking people are staring at this unusual bump under my t-shirt. So i decided to try these boxers from Comfizz and they are excellent, my bag feels so secure and it shapes my stomach to look more normal. If your struggling like I was I would thoroughly recommend them. If you are in the UK you can get them on prescription which is a bonus. http://www.stomawise.co.uk/product-guide/comfizz/c omfizz-mens-products


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Great new clothing product for ostomates! trendy top

Greetings fellow Ostomates! I had my operation 2 years ago this August and have been searching for something comfortable and affordable for daily wear to help camouflage and secure my ostomy bag. I'm tired of having to wear my shorts and jeans above my waist like Erkel hehe I happened to run across this product, Trendy Tops, yesterday while shopping in Rite Aid. They are marketed towards women but are not frilly and can be used for men too. These are great for around the waist to help...


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Swimming and exercise

I am going to finally get released in a couple of months back to the gym. I had a permanent ostomy in March and many complications, but I am so ready to go back to my life again. Question: If you have experience in Swimming what do you use? Your regular bag or do you know of any bags made for swimming? Question: Has anyone who runs or works out used anything at the gym to cover the pouch because of the heavy sweating? I wondered if anyone has used a cover so the plastic doesn't get wet...


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Clothing for men - how do i dress?

I just had my emergency surgery just over a month ago, and came off the wound vac less than a week ago. The incision is still closing and the scar forming. I now have a colostomy that may be able to be reversed in a few months. I was also laid off my job becaus of the legnth of stay in the hospital. The doctors and nurses really did not pepare me for life with an ostomy. I basically learned how to change the appliance (seems from reading here that is the correct term). I have kind of had t...


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Clothing

This is mainly to Lester -- and anybody else that can give me info. Where can I find the website or any info on the "Ostomy Belt" that Lester mentioned in his post??


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Clothing

I've been wearing pants that are two sizes to big, in order to accommodate my appliance, for the last 12 years. I read someones post a few weeks ago and they suggested maternity pants. Well, I came out of the dressing room with a BIG SMILE on my face. I had to adjust the top and put in a piece of elastic to hold them up but I no longer have to wear big baggy pants. Thank you so much.


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Swimming with a discreet bag

I happend to live in an island in the med, where from June to September, we can go swimming daily. The problem was, that I was unable to fully hide my appliance, underneath my trunks. What I did was to cut the flange hole , off centre, elongated towards the top. This way the whole appliance moves downwards, able to hide all, yet, not artifacts !


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Clothing

I am wondering if other women and men had issues with their clothing once they had ileostomy surgery? I am a 34 year old female and when I had my ostomy surgery, the stoma was in a different place when I woke up than the mark that was made on me. It is lower, so the waist band on most of my dress pants goes right across the top of my stoma. has anyone had any issues with this and if so, could you please give me some ideas on how to correct this problem. Thanks!


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Aquafit or swimming with large hernia?

Hi all, I was just wondering if anyone else out there has ever been given any guidance on swimming or doing Aquafit with a large (well, the size of half a melon!) hernia? I am desperately trying to lose weight and am now trying Slim Fast as I can't eat any green veg or normal diet foods, but I thought some exercise might help and as I am so restricted with that as well (bad heart means I can only walk 10 metres normal pace), thought that swimming might help, although I am not a particularly g...


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Keep appliances on while bathing, swimming and showering!

Hi ALL: I recently signed up for this site and have had an Ileostomy since December 2010. I have read so many postings about others asking questions on how others keep their appliances on while bathing, swimming and showering. I hope the info below can be of help. I've had a huge issue with my wafers not holding due to my body chemistry that causes sweating which in turn causes the wafers to lift. Not to mention, I live in the South where humidity is high during the summer months whic...


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Swimwear

Hi ostomates! Because the summer is here I want to ask you if you know a good site with swimwear for men.


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Holiday swimwear for men

Holidays Hi all i will be going on holiday in a few weeks and need to get some swimwear (shorts)that will cover my stoma anyone any ideas where i can order them from? Only had my operation 2 months ago so none of last years will do i need some with i high waist.


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The bag, clothes and a bit of food

I am new to the land of ostomy and I feel the Ostomy nurses don't share as much as I can read on here. So I have a few questions... Do I need to support the bag? i.e. Do I need to wear a belt or is it okay to let the bag hang freely? My stoma is situated such that I can wear my regular under garments, however I notice that there are garments which hold the bag. Is this necessary? Does the stoma have to be protected? I was only told that excessive rubbing would not be good. I was given a...


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Swimming

I haven't attempted swimming with my ostomy yet. I've seen special bathing suits and various kinds of equipment such as belts, etc. Can anyone give me tips/suggestions on what to get? I want to start swimming for exerise and I also love to travel so I'm thinking about swimming and sunbathing for leisure as well.


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What clothes can i wear?

What clothes can be worn with an iliostomy other then elastic waste stuff? I'm so tired of sweat pants and don't want my bag popping with jeans..:(


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Sexy underwear

hi there ladies,i just wanted to bring up the topic of sexy underwear,i have a few questions,do you girls miss the sexy underwear lingerie companies such as anne summers and la senza offer? ive noticed theres a few companies out there that offer "sexy" ostomy underwear but am i alone in thinking that the underwear on offer is pretty and well want for a better word safe? the colour schemes are bland,do the designers of these companies believe that just because we have ostomies that we d...


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Clothing

Hi all can anyone give me a good sit to look at underwear for illeostomys people


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Swimming

Hi Everyone, Just would like some help or information when it comes to what everyone uses when it comes to swimming? I am about to experiance my first summer with my Iliestomy and my god here in perth on wednesday was 37 degress and i was so uncomfortable. I have been itchy and irritated! I currently Use Dansac Pre-cut drainable "bags" i have already started using medical tape and sticking that to me as they keep leaking throughout the nights. If anyone could help or suggest so...


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Swimming for men...

Hi, my stoma is quite high (above belly button) & I was wondering what the men on here wear when swimming. It is not really practical to wear high waistband swimmers (would look REALLY stupid) Thanks


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Swimming with a stoma

Hi I am trying to contact any one who lives in the UK Blackpool area, to ask them about swimming pools sutable for us with a Stoma.


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Back fromholiday/swimming/etc.

Hi all ... did ya miss me ? Just got back from a couple of weeks at the lake (interior of B.C. - much hotter weather than where I live on the coast). First real trip since my ileo in Dec. 09. And a reality check too. My energy/physical shape is nowhere near what it was this time last year. Tried to do all the same stuff ... wow I tired fast! Did all the right things re water/hydration and eating. But boy did I feel old. Swimming: everything stayed put and I quite enjoyed myself....


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Clothes pins & tape

Hey everybody. 'k so stupid here didn't know that when you type here in really big fonts ( so I can see what I typed ) it gets posted that way oops ! Just wanted to mention something I found ( or maybe you all know about it & I'm late to the party) but I got some tape from a nurse at the hospital..... its called Hypafix and is virtually the same material that the cloth part of the wafers are made of . Its hypoallergenic & easy on the skin and makes the wafers last longer if they star...


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Swimming with ostomy

I'm rather new at this and would like to know how others handle swimming when you have an ostomy--especially the men? My wife and I are going on a cruise in about 2 weeks and I am really anxious about swimming. My colostomy is high on the left (above the beltline). I normally use Sensura 2-piece. It has been suggested that I use a short-sleve wetsuit but I think that would be awfully hot in the tropics. What do you think?


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Bathing suits...

Summer is comming! I was wondering, how many of you women wear a bikini, or a full one piece? And men, how many just wear trunks? When it comes to an ostomy, it takes a lot of confidence to show it off(in my opinion.) Also i was wondering would a monokini look awkward? just looking for a little advice, feed back. xoxo. (:


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How do you swim w/ a bag?

I know this sounds like a stupid question, but I have a two piece bag, I change the wafer thingy once-twice a week and the bags I just put on take off and throw away, no mess no nothing, nice actually, but I love to swim and get scared that if i swim, i have to wrap it and do all of this silly stuff, in fear of it falling off? Anyone have any ideas, I've got 2 boys who love to swim, and I love swimming myself, so if anyone could shoot a secret or two my way that's be great thanks!


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Swimwear

hi all does anyone know where to get a swimsuit .i m due to go on holiday later in the year and have never managed to get a decent swimsuit that does actually hide the bag,i did buy one from a company in the uk who make ostomy products but it was no good and really old fashioned,any suggestions welcome i wish i was good at dressmaking i d do it myself isabella


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Underwear

I have had a bag for about four years and have had difficulty finding the right underwear. I am not looking for silk or a thong you understand but some item that will support the bag and my nether regions but not look hideous. Has anyone any secret sources (obviously not Victoria's)??


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Jeans

So for all af the female OstoMates out there,how hard is it to find a pair of jeans.I went boxing day shopping wiyh my 24 year old daughter and 2 of her friends(the same age of my daughter)we had a great time but when we tried on jeans(14.00 a pair)I was so upset that all that they make are low rise jeans.Well when you have a stoma that is higher then where the jeans come its not very attractive.I woul like to hear your solutions to this problem if you have it.


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Ostomy lifestyle underwear model - rosemary

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Swimming

This is my first stoma summer and I just bought a new one piece swim suit yesterday. I am wondering for those of you that do swim, when you do, do you have to change to a new bag that same day or not too far after? I know the wafer is meant to absorb moisture so if you have moisture on the inside from the stoma and also on the outside from the pool water it would lessen the stickiness to the skin, right? Please let me know, thanks.


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Clothing improvement

Dear Friend, My name is Lindy Hughes. I am a retired tailoress currently living in Mid Wales, UK. I had a colostomy five years ago and now lead a full and active life. Ever since my operation, I have found that I have a problem with my colostomy bag I have found that trousers did not fit correctly, they were uncomfortable or that they restricted my movement. Using my experience as a tailoress I believe that I have a solution to this problem. I now would like to develop and share this so...


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Were can i get high waisted jeans to help cover my bag

i could do with some help pls with were to buy some high waisted jeans. i need to get some jeans to help cover my ileostomy bag. i can't find any - my stoma is just higher than my belly button


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Swimming

hi & thank you for the tips on irritated skin. What' everybody doing about swimming, is there a good cover to wear?


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