Okay, sorry for not replying to any of you guys. Apparently, I don't get an e-mail for replies on my posts. My uniform is a blue shirt and tan/brown slacks/jeans. No yoga pants, sweat pants, or anything resembling pajamas. Suspenders are within code, but I think scrubs are okay, and we sell them in tan. So that's an option for work.
I'm not terribly worried about anyone seeing Steve, but when I'm on the job, I know my managers will not take very kindly to me letting Steve see the world. I have an ileostomy that sits a little lower than my belly button on the right side, so the jeans I wear sit on my hips instead of at my waist. As far as swimming and sports, I saw a really cute one-piece with a little skirt attached that looks cute, so I might wear that. Not that I have any inclination to go swimming, yet. Haha. Summer continues long into October around here, and there are several water parks, so I may grab the beau and go swimming when I can get a proper suit. I'm looking into a support belt for outdoor activity, as well as something I can wear to work because I still get pain in my abdomen from time to time.
When I'm around the apartment or with my friends, I typically let the bag hang down outside of my pants. It doesn't get too full, so even though I wear a two-piece, I'm not worried about it coming apart and leaking everywhere.
I'll look into irrigating, though I have to be honest. I don't mind the bag since I just empty it whenever I go to pee. The bags I use now are the Hollister two-piece with a filter and clamp. Mostly because that's what I started with from the kit my WOC/ET nurse sent me after leaving the hospital. I like them quite well, except the filter gets clogged after roughly a day. Still trying to figure out how to fix that.
So wraps and intimacy belts are recommended for the bedroom? Got it. The beau hasn't complained about my bag rustling in the bed, but the fact that the plastic is between two bodies, well, yeah. Had an almost-pulled-the-bag-off moment recently, so definitely need to fix that. Haha! I will say, some of the bag covers are kinda funny. I'm thinking about getting the one that says "Shit Happens" and others similar, just because that is the sense of humor I have. Maybe even get some for holidays, just for the giggles.
I haven't had to wear a dress, yet, but I'll keep Spanx in mind.
Are there any stomach-supporting belts you guys would recommend? I'm a little worried about herniating something, since I'm going back to work soon, and sales may as well be a full-contact sport.