hope all are we'll, I'm 32, have been on my fair share of dates over the years dating people with and without the bag, still single but have enjoyed some company along the way, I have diabetes and a skin condition also.
Well I went out with a fellow ostomate, who I had been speaking with on skype, Facebook and on this forum over the last six months, with her having surgery before Xmas we decided to leave things until the new year, she finally got in touch and agreed to meet up. In newcastle, where she is from, I'm from crewe, so a 3.5 hr train ride with one stop would be ok for me.
we met up end of March and got on really well, I liked her she liked me. Then a few days after went by and did not here anything. Then she texts me to let me know when she got home in the early hours of the morning, she fell over at home and ended up in hospital and got two broken wrists, I could not believe it as I put her in a taxi on the early hours of 1st April and she was drunk, so I did the right thing, I'm a gentleman, I treat women with respect, as we all do!!
anyway to cut a long story short, we kept in touch, sent messages by text and skype and Facebook over the next ten weeks while she recovered and got her casts off and had other surgeries for her chrohns.
we then agreed to meet up again on th 9th June, 2014 back in newcastle for a 2nd meet up in the evening. When I got to newcastle I went on my iPad to see not only had she blocked me from Facebook, she had also stopped my texts and emails getting through to try and contact her. I was heart broken, oh yes we were not a couple or getting married or even seeing each other on a regular basis, but I was left deversated and in need of answers as I had told her about everything about the bag, which she had and everything going back to when mine had started and the things we both liked, etc.
anyway, was I wrong to meet up with someone else who had the bag or was she wrong to let me down?
Darren c, 32 from Cheshire
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