About a year ago I had custom lingere made by Rigby and Peller which has a shop on Bond street in London. I worked with one of their seemstresses there to design corsetts made with a little pocket and enough substance in the front to make things smooth. I also had the front extend a bit lower into the pubic area to hide most of my scar. about an inch of the scar shows....not a big deal. The lingere wast cheap but it wasnt crazy expensive either. Each piece may have been about 75 to 100 pounds.
If you are a long time member of the site I'll consider sending you some photos of how it looks on as long as you promise to keep them private. Sorry guys!! lol
One of the things that I have found is that a lot of people beyond their thirties are insecure about their bodies. I have had four children. One of my lovers has also had four. Women get stretch marks. Many of us have had numerous surgeries. Some breast cancer. Men's bellies are bigger and their chests arent as tight as they were when they are young. Women's hips and legs arent as lithe. It's ok though. People can still be beautiful!! Smiles still charm and attitudes can still excite. The richness of experiences and our battle scars make us stronger and more interesting!