Hi everyone, Im new to the site and just catching up on the posts.
Tarababy you are sooo right!
In my experience I have dated for years with a colostomy bag and believe me if things start hotting up, telling the new guy at the last minute helps rather than telling him too early and expecting he will run a mile.
If a guy shows any hesitancy its probably because he dosnt know what is OK and what is uncomfortable for you. In all my dates I never had a bad experience. I think that is because taking the time to pick the right type of guy helps enormously.
Ive even been to a sex party! - dress the right way and you can get away with anything. Get out and enjoy life!