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First Kiss...

Posted by magoo

   Someone actually commented on the fact that Ms Kitty kisses me as I recounted...when I sat into her car . The implication was that this may have been a little ...."loose" ...or too forward for somdone I had just met . 

   Quite a silly reaction to such a sweet and delicate moment of genuine, honest Feeling ....of emotion !!  We both saw that spark of life that had just been ignited . The hot ember of emotion that had been smouldering within both of us had suddenly received new fuel...a new lease on life.

    I was perhaps  hesitant due to the fact that I had been alone for a much longer period and was also several years older than my new friend. All my fears and pretense fell from me like the Autumn leaves drifting from colorful Fall trees. The stripping of the exterior only reveals the budding new life beneath and within which bursts forth with a totally fresh  , new perspective. A new confidence glowed and sparked inside me which has become apparent in my new personality  , my new approach to life ...

Her kiss was like an infusion of new , fresh blood into my jaded body and soul. 

....Back Later 

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Bill : Hello magoo.
What a beautiful concept and sentiment, exquisitely elucidated. Thank you so much for sharing and I look forward to hearing more.
Best wishes
Jan 07, 2018
magoo : Thank you Bill....i guess I'm still not sure about a long term ...long distance relationship. The Lady K. Is quite certain !! I must not take this for granted. Still amazed that we clicked so quickly and easily.
Thanks Bill..
Jan 07, 2018
dadnabbit : It's only time and space, Eamon. Enjoy the relationship as it is and as it grows. And ignore other peoples "judgements" as if they actually matter. A simple, sweet gesture as a kiss that is happily received, is in no way salacious, but rather has been a completely accepted mode of greeting for eons. I'd guess that the critic either doesn't have much social interaction, has heard too much of UNWELCOME kisses here in America recently, or is just jealous. If it is acceptable to you and your Ms K. nobody else matters.
Jan 07, 2018
magoo : Hi Nancy...Great to hear from you Sweetie and yes indeed I really don't care what anyone thinks. A relationship...a long or short distance one is kind of terrifying for me to be quite honest !! It has been a while for me and I have to pinch myself to believe that a woman actually likes me and wants me so much !! We had been texting and chatting for a while so we were very familiar with each other by the time we met in person. There have been many kisses since and every one more delicious than the last lol XO....All the best Nancy . Jan 07, 2018
dadnabbit : The fear and anticipation are common factors to a new relationship. You have always expressed yourself clearly and with class, and those two features will surely help you with your new friendship. And the possibilities of continuing this exciting journey for both of you will just plain be fun. Distance can actually be a good thing, allowing for time to explore each others' personalities and peculiarities (and Yes--we ALL have a few), and the anticipation of the next get together is ALWAYS thrilling. Good Luck.
Jan 07, 2018
magoo : You are so right Nancy !! Having the time apart is actually a very positive thing and getting back together again will be even more fun many ways haha !! I miss cuddling while watching a movie .. it will be nice to have it again when we get back together again. Jan 07, 2018
Angelicamarie : Eamon, I'm scared of you!! You go!! Angel
Jan 08, 2018
magoo : Ooohh you have my attention Angel ..Please elaborate ....a Little Angel Scared of A Mischievous Little Irish Devil ...Lol XO Jan 08, 2018
magoo : I hope I'm Scary in a Good Way Angelica haha XOXO Jan 09, 2018
magoo : I knew exactly what you meant Angelica . I scare myself sometimes lol....this is a whole new experience and I'm just getting used to the idea of sharing my company and my previous solitude with another person. I had forgotten how nice it is to cuddle on the couch and just enjoy the warmth of another body and another pair of arms wrapped around me . Making that long term commitment is not easy because it;s all so new to me . I can never say that I'm totally committed to anything unless I know for absolute certain that I am ready for that.
Hugs Angel XOXO
Jan 09, 2018
Angelicamarie : Eamon when I said I was scared of you, it was nothing negative. Do your thing ,glad you found happiness
So many want it and have yet to receive it ! Congratualations
Jan 09, 2018

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