Topic Explanation
The forum topic is about a new ostomate seeking support after having surgery earlier in the year. The user is looking for advice and support from the community.

Replies - Advice and Insights
- The forum is a supportive place with helpful people.
- Ostomates are encouraged to ask for advice and share their experiences.
- It's important to work on mental health and acceptance after surgery.
- Some members share their experiences with the "Barbie Butt" surgery and offer tips for recovery.
- Getting a tattoo to symbolize the journey and recovery is seen as a positive and empowering choice.
- Members share their experiences with recovery, returning to work, and using support belts.
- The community offers support, friendship, and a safe space for ostomates to connect and share experiences.
- Members with years of experience offer reassurance and advice for new ostomates.
- Sharing nicknames and finding humor in the situation is seen as part of acceptance and recovery.