This topic is about a lighthearted concern someone has when they enter a chat room on a website. They notice that whenever they join, it seems like everyone else leaves, and they humorously wonder if it's because of their ostomy bag, even though they assure everyone that it won't affect anyone else.

Here are some helpful insights and advice from others:

1. Many people have confirmed that it's just a glitch with the site:
- The system sometimes shows the last user's nickname even after they've left, so when you join, it looks like they suddenly disappear.
- The nickname fades away until someone new arrives, which can make it seem like people are vanishing.

2. Don't take it personally—no one is leaving because of you. Keep enjoying the chat room.

3. Some practical tips:
- If you want to chat in real-time, try coordinating a time by messaging or emailing other members first.
- After logging in, look for the "Enter Chat Room" link or button on the main page and click it to join.
- Once inside, you can send private messages and even play trivia games.

4. Offers of support: Several members are happy to schedule chats with you, promising enjoyable conversations and reassurance that there are plenty of "way cool" people using the room, even if they aren't full (paid) members.