This topic is about a young single mother who is navigating the dating world again after a tough breakup. She has an ostomy, which her previous partner couldn't accept, leading to a hit on her self-esteem. Despite this, she bravely set up three dates with a man from her hometown. During a special birthday dinner he made for her, she shared her "ostomy speech" with him. His response was lighthearted and accepting, which made her feel more confident and optimistic about herself and the potential for a new relationship.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Many people agree that his accepting reaction is a good sign. A genuine partner will not be put off by children or an ostomy.

2. Some shared their own experiences with supportive partners who:
- Stayed by their side through surgery and recovery, helping with wound care and appliance changes.
- Wanted to understand more by seeing, understanding, or even wearing a pouch themselves.
- Took care of pets or children during hospital stays and recovery periods.

3. Self-confidence is key. Believing in yourself and thinking "I still got it" can make sharing your story easier.

4. While experiences can vary and some partners may leave, there are many positive examples of people who accept an ostomy right from the start.

5. For other single parents and ostomates, there is encouragement in knowing that humor, openness, and choosing compassionate partners can lead to fulfilling relationships.