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Mar 23, 2023

Getting to Know Each Other Through Fun Questions

This topic is all about getting to know each other through a fun and light-hearted quiz specifically designed for people with ostomies. The originator of the quiz shares their own answers, giving us a glimpse into their life and experiences. Here are some of the key points and advice shared:

- **Activities Then and Now**: Before their ostomy, the originator enjoyed traveling with young children. Now, they cherish time with grandchildren, creating "busy boxes," dabbling in woodworking, watching movies, and enjoying books and music.

- **Personality Traits**: They describe themselves as a social extrovert who is most active between midnight and 3 a.m. Sleep can be a challenge, varying from light to deep due to concerns about leaks and the need to empty the pouch frequently.

- **Preferences**: They are indifferent to the choice between paper and plastic, enjoy moderate amounts of caffeine, prefer dogs, love chocolate, and have fond memories of the California 17-Mile Drive. Their dream trip is to Disney World.

- **Ostomy Impact**: The originator has faced direct rejection because of their ostomy, highlighting a challenging aspect of their experience.

- **Product Experience**: They have tried over 100 different brands and items related to ostomy care, including barriers, cements, and deodorizers. They specifically mention a product called "Safe n' Simple Adhesive Remover Wipes."

- **Favorite Holiday Moment**: Watching children open presents is their favorite part of Christmas.

- **Occasional Pretending**: They admit to "faking it" on unspecified occasions, perhaps to fit in or avoid awkward situations.

Here are some additional insights and advice shared by others:

1. **Managing Sleep**: Many ostomates, including the originator, find that they wake up when their pouch fills. Sleep quality can vary greatly, so it's important to find a routine that works for you.

2. **Product Trials**: While the originator has tried over 100 products, another member mentioned trying about five before finding the right fit. This shows that while experimentation is common, it doesn't have to be extensive.

3. **Lifestyle Reassurance**: It's still possible to enjoy live music venues, as bathrooms are always available. This encourages ostomates to continue pursuing hobbies they loved before their ostomy.

4. **Emotional Support**: Having a supportive spouse or partner can make a big difference. One member expressed gratitude for their partner and sympathized with those who face rejection, emphasizing the importance of understanding relationships.

5. **Environmental Tip**: When given the choice between paper or plastic, opt for a reusable shopping bag to be more environmentally friendly.
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