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Diagnosed with Crohn's Disease in 1997. Temporary Defunctioning Loop Ileostomy formed in 2002. Still got it! Life is good though. Can't complain.
Like most people, I'm not a massive fan of writing these things. You can't really talk about yourself online without sounding kind of stuck up.

I work hard, but can play hard too. I love a good conversation. (Sometimes go a bit deep.)
People tell me that I'm a 'one off'. I take that as a compliment. ;)

I love to produce music. I'm obsessed with good, quality music. Playing it, listening to it and making it. Google Kris Nebroso to find out more about the DJ/Production side of me. I also mix using Turntables / CDJs / MIDI. I'm a qualified Sound Engineer.
I love to cook good food. Mainly Pasta dishes, Curries and Thai food.

I have a huge interest in Health and Medical-related stuff. [Pharmaceutical / Biopsychiatry / Psychology.]
How food/nutrition/drugs/drink etc affect the body and the mind. Not in a 'geek-ish' way though.
I'm also currently training to become a Qualified EFT Practitioner.

Aside from all that, I'm not looking for anything heavy at the minute, but I'm not saying if the right girl came along I would let a good opportunity go to waste.

If I had to say what I'm ultimately looking for, it would be a girl/woman who is quite similar to me, especially with morals and humour. 'Fun', but intellectual enough to know the difference between right and wrong. Someone that is independent, but also loves to spend quality time together when we both feel like it.

I used to take life way too seriously, but these days, I deal with things as they come, with a more relaxed attitude.
I see problems as challenges...

I Like:
Casual Shirts
Davidoff Cool Water
River Island
Costa Coffee
Stupid Words
Collecting Vinyl Records
Only Fools and Horses
Russell Brand
Haribo Tangfastics
Melted Cheese
Smirnoff Vodka
Charity Shops
Hoovering (not even joking.)
Orange (The colour.)
'Quick' People

I Dislike:
Judgemental, close-minded, goody-goody, snobbish, sanctimonious, smug people.
Strictly Come Dancing
Reality TV
Soaps. (That Coronation Street theme tune is enough to drive a man insane.)
Religion (Apart from Buddhism. 'Zen' is good.)
Sunday Drivers
Pierced Tongues
People that can't spell
'Slow' People

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