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I am a 2 1/2 year survivor of bladder cancer. The same type that took my father 15 years ago. I have only attempted to date once in the past 2 1/2 years; unfortunately, that did not work out. I am a super outgoing, funny, and passionate guy. (Or at least I was before my cancer!) I miss the touch of someone's hand reaching for mine; someone to have dinner and wine with and enjoy a movie. I don't know how, as a gay man, to approach the subject of my ostomy pouch, so I have become a prisoner of my own choice in my own home. Along with my bladder, my prostate and seminal glands were removed. Although I can still experience an orgasm, they are "dry." Of course this has also affected my sex drive, but not my desire to be intimate. I'm in great shape; 5'10", 160 lbs. Interested in meeting similar guys with similar issues, needs and wants!
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I'm new to having a stoma, had surgery for colostomy in november 2019 due to neu...
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