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I am currently 29. I decided to join a site where I could confide in people who share the same struggles and triumphs. I documented my illness and have posted my story in my Blog so check it out if you're interested.

I have a Colostomy and Urostomy. I am still put off by my physical changes but I am adapting. I would like to meet a man who understands my situation and is not totally "weirded" out by me. I have not even thought about dating again until recently and the idea is still frightening. I don't like rejection...but then again who does? I hope to make some friends who are positive like me and who don;t let our ailment control our lives. I never joined any support groups for my cancer or for my ostomys, just tried to do it on my own, but I think it's time to share my life and story with those who I can relate to and vice versa. I am very mellow but I love to have a good time. I am relearning how to be active and do things that may otherwise be difficult in my particular situation, so it would be nice to meet people who are in the same boat as me. We may not be able to control what has happened to us but we have the ability to not let it consume us.
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