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I ended up with an ileostomy after medical negligence in Sept 2017, was on life support for a month. I had sepsis, peritonitis and necrotic faciitis with a further 5 months in hospital. My partner of 18 years dumped me when I came home and I then lost my job. I am unable to work due to complications and find the life that I once knew to be gone. I have tried dating but the minute I tell them of my troubles I see a look of pity crossed with panic. I want to be with someone who can love me for what I am, someone to hug me and not think I am contagious. I would love to travel again, wish list is Northern Lights, see the swimming pigs in the Bahamas, Jamaica and many more.
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m, 56
I am a 48 yrs. old and have had my Ileo for about ten mths. I have a rare blood disorde...
Texas, United States
m, 54
been in michigan all my life....have my business here, will probably live out the rest of...
Michigan, United States
m, 60
I am open to all races and ethnicites. I am looking for a lady who enjoys life and knows h...
Indiana, United States
m, 58
Got my permanent Ileostomy on Feb 18, 2016. If during this journey I meet someone s...
Wisconsin, United States
m, 58
Looking for friends and people that understand, last two years or so, tended to lock mysel...
United Kingdom
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