I am a 54 year old gay man who just got out of a 27 year relationship I'm smart, have a huge heart, and funny. I like trying new things. The reason my relationship ended was because my husband was no longer attracted to me and admitted to me that he was turned off by me. I want to see if there is ever a chance someone could be turned on by someone who has a colostomy. I have my doubts. I just need some affection and intimacy in my relationship.