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I was diagnosed with Rectal Cancer on 11/06. After 2 months of Chemo and Radiation, I had surgery to remove the Cancer & then did another 8 months of Chemo. I have had 2 temporary Illeostomy; finally in 12/10 I had my permanent Ostomy surgery -due to fistula's that kept recurring in my Colon.

I am a people person and never meet a stranger. Yet, I have found trying to date guys, once they find out about the Ostomy -they (I assume, are turned off) never return my calls, e-mails, or make some (great) excuses.

I have a great "BIG" heart to share with a great guy, but I am not willing to just settle with anyone. He will be just as special as I am and we will be a force to be reckoned with (LOL)...

I am looking for another man, that is non-judgmental, can accept the fact that I have an Colostomy, is not shallow, and knows how to love another man. If you have a problem with drugs, alcohol or gambling -We definitely will not be a match!

You should have an a great personality -I could care less about ones looks, bank account, etc... It is TRULY ones personality that will win my heart.
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