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My name is Kurt and I am new to this so please have patience. I am a shy person at first, but when I get to know someone and feel comfortable being around them, I can open up. I have a hard time meeting women because of being shy. I have had a few relationships but it seems that once most girls find out about my colostomy problem, they tend to shy away. I guess it is not something that is easy to get used to. I like to spend my time getting all the newest music and karaoke songs I can. I am a DJ that plays at local bars and clubs and an occasional wedding or birthday party. I am looking for someone to spend my time with and someone that can go with me when I am DJ'ing. When I am out DJ'ing, I sometimes like to sing some karaoke to get the crowd interested. I know, you think since I am shy, I would not do this. I do it cause it is fun and it is part of how I relate to the people. If you read this and are interested it chatting or maybe even getting together for a night out, feel free to send me a message or look for me on here.

I am not sure where to start, I have tried all kinds of sites to meet someone, but I haven't had any luck so far. I got an email with different sites that are for people with ostomies and figured I would give it a try. What do I have to lose.
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