Sex after J-Pouch surgery: Experiences and advice?

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garfish

Anybody heard of oral sex?

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Oral sex, don't think that just talking about it can be a substitute for the real thing.
transcend82

Hi, I also have a loop ileo w/j-pouch. I am sexually active and it can be painful at times. Honestly, it depends on the position. With deep penetration, there sometimes comes that stabbing pain in the tummy. It's sometimes bearable, other times not so much, and you gotta switch it up. I waited about 4 weeks after surgery to get it on but took it easy at first. There are times when you can do whatever and be okay. It's all experimentation. Have fun and remember not to be apprehensive about it.

 
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garfish

Exactly, if your lover is patient and caring, there is no reason not to be satisfied.