This is awesome

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gutenberg
It reminds you that no matter how tough life might be for anyone of us it will get better!
This is AWESOME ... something we should all remember.

A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably combed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.

His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. As he manoeuvred his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window. I love it, he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy. Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait.

That doesn't have anything to do with it, he replied. Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged, it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up; I have a choice...I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've stored away. Just for this time in my life.

Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory Bank. I am still depositing. Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred
2. Free your mind from worries
3. Live simply
4. Give more
5. Expect less

Have a nice day, unless you already have other plans.
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I totally agree Ed . . . AWESOME!
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nogutz
bsp; nbspHi Ed just remember that all your body parts work............... nbsp; nbsp;cause they removed the parts that no longer worked! Great post again, Man your on a roll . The biology question was one of those moments. Of when I felt I had just learned a very important part of some of my Questions and you seemed to just ask the right question nbsp; nbsp;the right way at the right time sorta thing . Then this and again a real life situation. withe great values nbsp; nbsp;.Thanks for making my Day
gutenberg
Thanks for your comments Noguts: this post was also a learning experience for me and some lines are etched in my mind, now to remember to use some of this to my advantage and I guess thats what learning is all about, Ed
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you are right-that is awesome!!
 
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