I see that all the usual coments have already been made;
"If he really loves you, it won't get in the way". Thats true,
but by the time the love thing is beginning to happen, you will have already
gotten to the exploring stage. While the theory is admirable, it just don't hold water.
As far as clothes. covers,etc. goes, "that dog won't hunt either",
you are starting off with trying to deceive, a bad thing.
There is no advice that will work every time, but I DO have an idea, try it on for size.
Instead of just coming out and telling the guy to see how he reacts try this;
Begin by telling him about an "aquaintance" of yours,(a guy or a girl who has this
bag that they must wear constantly. And that they are afraid to tell for fear
of losing the prospective date. Say," do you think that is right for other people to feel
like they don't want to date anyone with a bag?" " My "aquaintance" is really haveing a bad time
with this problem," "what do you think?"
If nothing else it will give you an insight as to how your potential date will react to the situation.
as everyone else............I too wish you luck and well being
P.S. By the way there are single guys in this forum.......chat with them and see what their feelings
are, after all they are "wearing " too