Hi all...
I have had a total colectomy due to colon cancer. Everything is internal in my case, but still something that I must talk to those I date/like about. My diet is limited to mostly white foods, roughage and whole grains don't get tolerated very well.
I take a combo of Imodium 3x a day with a fiber drink like Citracell 2x a day to help solidify the poop more like a normal bowel movement vs constant diarrhea.
But telling someone that I had colon cancer and had an operation to completely remove it and survive would be the first thing I told them in this discussion. That usually leads to a bit of sympathy and a question on what I can eat and what I can do. When to tell? When you meet someone and you think it clicks on many levels and before you get intimate. It's hard, I know. But I also have herpes, and that has support groups and meetup sites and singles dating sites and it is even harder to have that conversation because it is something that is transmissible.
So having a bag, which I have heard good and bad about, is one thing, but it's just part of you. If they can't accept it, they may not be the right fit for the long run. Definitely a website that has the right info as a referral for them is good too.
I am hoping to meet someone on this site for dating who can accept my dietary challenges, smelly poop, beating cancer, as well as safe sex and herpes. Please send me a note if you are interested and best to all.
Robin
I have had a total colectomy due to colon cancer. Everything is internal in my case, but still something that I must talk to those I date/like about. My diet is limited to mostly white foods, roughage and whole grains don't get tolerated very well.
I take a combo of Imodium 3x a day with a fiber drink like Citracell 2x a day to help solidify the poop more like a normal bowel movement vs constant diarrhea.
But telling someone that I had colon cancer and had an operation to completely remove it and survive would be the first thing I told them in this discussion. That usually leads to a bit of sympathy and a question on what I can eat and what I can do. When to tell? When you meet someone and you think it clicks on many levels and before you get intimate. It's hard, I know. But I also have herpes, and that has support groups and meetup sites and singles dating sites and it is even harder to have that conversation because it is something that is transmissible.
So having a bag, which I have heard good and bad about, is one thing, but it's just part of you. If they can't accept it, they may not be the right fit for the long run. Definitely a website that has the right info as a referral for them is good too.
I am hoping to meet someone on this site for dating who can accept my dietary challenges, smelly poop, beating cancer, as well as safe sex and herpes. Please send me a note if you are interested and best to all.
Robin