Hi everybody
( Moonshines ) Spot on, your reply just concluded all my thoughts in a short sentence.
I am gonna drop some knowledge here, so please feel free if you do like it or dislike it
It seems that girls, women, females or whatever you call them on this website are looking for George Clooney with an ostomy
Guys, gents or similar creatures on here are also looking for Cinderella with an ostomy
Would also like to highlight some trendy words by some ostomates. When it comes to dating on this website, please don't say I am looking for someone to date from the same boat without meaning it.
I thought I would find people on here who would help each other not to sink in the ocean of dating misery, but the truth is that people on here are striving to stay afloat by using other ostomate as a swimming aid.
So, for people who claim on their profile "I am open to talk or chat with anyone" and then don't reply even when a contact email is been provided in the message ( F--K U ALL FOR NOT spending 2 minutes in acknowledging respond ;) (SELL OUTS fully applies to u lot)!!
People..... Realistically, it is much easier to convey how you feel, whatever it's because of the ostomy or a relative health condition to an ostomate than a stranger who knows NILL in medicine.
I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR OF SOMEONE WHO GOT ALONG WITH AN OSTOMATE FROM THIS WEBSITE AND IF IT is (0) WHICH I'M SURE ABOUT IT, THEN, THIS WHOLE DATING OPTION IS AN EXPLICIT SCAM AND CLEARLY PLAYS ON PEOPLE'S INSECURITIES AS A MARKETING TOOL.
Having said that, this website is a great source of knowledge and you can actually chat with some really nice people on the chat forum or the chat room, who are happy enough if they make you feel better by any sorts and means. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO ITS UGLY OPTION OF DATING, DON'T BE LIKE ME AND FOOL YOURSELF ANYMORE
If you can prove me wrong; as this website has successful stories in dating ( 5 successful ones at least) I'm deleting this reply and also posting an apology instead, and if it's true think about it for a minute.
Sorry for being long
Love you all