Hi,
My name is Marsha, and when I had my surgery (ileostomy) back when I was 15 (50 years ago), they left the rectal stump. I adapted well to the ileostomy, but that stump refused to heal. My parents and the doctor resisted my requests to have it removed, so it took me 4 years to convince them. I was 19 at the time, and although the incision was slow to heal, it finally did. However, I had some complications... cut nerves to the bladder, and I lost sensation of having to "pee". But my bladder works... I just need to time myself.
I married at 20 and had no problem getting pregnant. My deliveries were difficult, however. The gyn dr. wanted to avoid a c-section because my belly was so cut up, scarred from the surgeries, drain and hernia scars... and of course, the ostomy is there on the right.
The vaginal births were difficult for both me and each of my two babies... as they were quite large, over 8 1/2 pounds each. There's always a risk, but I'm thankful for my very special doctors as they helped me through that time... not knowing how it was going to turn out.
Sadly, my two beautiful little boys inherited their father's and my conditions. One has UC, and the other has Crohn's. Neither has required surgery, but both have been on strong medications for years. They are both in their 40s now and are raising children of their own. So far... the grandkids are doing well... but one family "went vegan" and is on an autoimmune/healthy eating diet. The other family is now restricting milk products since it's a known inflammatory agent to those with bowel disorders.
I hope this helps to answer some questions..