Ew Speedos...not an option, for me, to even look at on any guy. Doesn't leave a lot to the imagination. Which, to me, is part of the allure - imagining. Yes, running around naked (or even half naked) isn't exactly what it use to be. Maybe if I lived by myself and hid all the mirrors. But even then I see this thing flapping around (or feel it on my leg). So, yeah, I have many unattractive days. But mostly I just try to ignore it and wear things that cover it up but still flatter me. Maybe you could wear a higher wasted beach short ? (Don't know where your stoma is.) I suppose if we all had hard bodies or kept ourself fit, like some of these pictures show, we'd look good no matter. But I still wonder if the bikini clad women would still take those pics if their bag was filled up (and how do they keep it from filling up in the first place?) And yes, I've seen some sexy shots of men too, but still the bag is flat. You may also notice, most of them are wearing the little short ones. Not the ones we probably all wear on a regular basis.
I do agree with LadyHope.....WTH! Can't you manufacturers come up with something a bit more appealing? I kinda like the design a young man posted awhile back of a clear bag but gradually turned colors towards the bottom.
Anyway, I'm sure you were hoping for some feedback from the gentlemen on this site too. But honestly, Gear Jammer, none of us look as good as we did in our younger years, with or without the bag. Just have to be a bit more creative.