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Sexual Frustration.

Posted by Mtnman, on Mon Apr 29, 2019 11:13 pm

Hello Scorsby I had colorectal cancer surgery and the doctor warned me that it would impair sex. At the time that didn't matter, but now I'm feeling it. They said I have a narrow pelvis and cut through a lot of nerves. So now I have no feeling to make it work. I have a permanent ostomy and therefore they sewed me up. It's still not healing all the way. There was an infection. After another stay in the hospital pumped with antibiotics they decided to cut it open and pack it 2-3 times a day. Since I  have been tethered to a wound vacuum to try to close up my deep wound.

Anyway, I don't have the pain that you have but it just won't work anymore. And I also had been denied intamicy after having children. (about 27 years) So some of us have been through some frustrating times. Thanks for listening and I am open to talk with anyone.

Reply by annie2006, on Mon Aug 19, 2019 7:02 pm
scorsby wrote:


Oh yes I know all about masturbation. Sadly the result on ejaculation is like red hot razer wire being pulled through, what once was my bum, belly and all the rest. The pain is terrible and lasts for some minutes afterwards. So very common and time honoured method that men and women have applied since time began isn't an option. How I wish that it was.



I'll be 60 in January and my libido has never been higher. Nothing I can do since my surgery in 2005 left me impotent. I write books and go for walks and wish things were different.


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