hi everyone I could use some of your sensible input.
i just came back from visiting a friend in North Carolina. She was treated for lung cancer ( very slow growing) she now has COPD and emphazema and using oxygen pretty much 24/7 I felt some of the usage was more out of fear than actual need. She has a friend and family taking care of her, and here is the rub. From what I observed I think they mean well but are doing too much. She is weak I feel in part because she just sits on the couch all day being waited on. I feel if they let her or insisted that she get up move around and attempted some small tasks her stamina and energy would slowly increase. My question is, as a friend who isn't daily involved( I live in fla.)could or should I put fourth this idea to those involved in her care. I feel strongly that she is giving up and just waiting for the end. She was always an extremely independent individual who never married and took care of herself and others. I am really struggling with this and need help. Can you kill someone with kindness?
look forward to feedback
rosiesmom