Well, do you want to hear from a guy? Personally, I consider myself a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Man, that's an old one-liner. For all those that took that seriously, I am joking. Anyway, I will admit, before I had this, it might have been a little turn down for me. However, it depends. I used to talk to girls who had some problems, but it didn't bother me too much. If the girl was funny and down to earth, I would talk. Sometimes you just gotta go out there. For me, I like a girl who has some confidence, and I think that's what you need. Hey, maybe it's not a lot, but a little confidence won't hurt. If a girl honestly was funny, down to earth, and I was digging her, I would have worked around it. Granted, it would be new, so just like you have to get comfortable with it, so would a guy. So I wouldn't spring it on him like a spring chicken when it's time to do... it. However, talk about it beforehand, even if you're just a little vague. That's coming from how I probably would have been. Also, you can find ways, if you're feeling less confident, to position things differently, so things won't interfere with certain positions.
Also, I am not saying you have to be funny. It's just some people have different qualities. If guys can go out and do... it, then I am sure women will as well.