Oh gosh! My autocorrect and failure to proofread. It's no wonder you're confused. My apologies. I have to be clear, I am ileostomy, 2 non-working pigtail stents, a medical neurotransmitter, which works for the leakage and incontinence in usually the urinary issues, however they experimented with me and it worked. It has stopped the leakage you speak of.
Call Mayo and ask to speak to Shield Buehler of Dr. Dois. His name is pronounced "doze was." Sorry phonetically, that's it.
Ask about the Stimulator Dr. Chua placed in a patient with F.A.P. and Gardner's Syndrome. To help you. Then contact me back about the angel network to get you to Minnesota via airplane. Most procedures are done outpatient so a hotel is needed.
There is a hotel we used with a free personal shuttle at a call to the help desk. So much I learned.
YES, anything that can go wrong has been my life. It doesn't mean it's yours. I really believe you could be helped. I don't regret my decision. I felt empowered with my new body. I do have dark days and it's not the bag or port. It's lack of friends, disability retirement, my husband, and my loss with him. The cancer stuff I didn't know I had, my children inherited and fight it too. I have no friends nor family. I got sick and people feel while I'm cute, funny, witty, intelligent, creative, blah blah blah... I'm too complicated. Just turned 59 and I'm a young 59 so I'm not sure how I got to being too complicated. My mother thinks the bag is disgusting and repugnant. So, I gave up on perfection when shit hit the fan. I don't edit all I say. I'm just trying to get through a day alone. I thought the bag and port as an interruption, now I wonder why I'm trying so hard, for who? My daughter. My son will talk to us if I'm about to die, otherwise he stays in Nevada and travels the world (not here) with his wife. My daughter receives her doctorate in English Comp. And then into the hospital the next day for a bit of work. I live for her, always have.
She is an angel. Though married, I have taken a very back seat. I will not know grandchildren, so there goes that clan of friends. They feel uncomfortable for me. So take care of your assistance and it will be a dream come true.
I know this as factual.