Hello it's me again ... I hope and pray everyone is well. I have a family member my father to be exact that really doesn't understand the highs and lows of day to day function. I when to a barbecue on the forth of July had an accident I was discreet about it ... family had another barbecue today and chose not to go . It's at a park with bathrooms close by. My father thinks I'm making it more than what it is. My backing of my two piece did not stick. So I had to clean up on the car. How do I get him to understand or will he ever understand. I don't always feel my best. I thought after the surgery I was going to feel a 💯 but I don't always. I still deal with bad constipation and now since the surgery I can feel it even the more if I don't empty every day. Saw doctor Thursday so now I take 400 twice a day. Do any of you still deal with the same issues aafter surgery?