I had a reversal in August last year. The first five weeks were terrible, thankfully things have settled down. Some days I still go a bit not as much as I was. Thankfully I can leave the house. My surgeon told me it will be be 5 years before I'm back to normal.
What is your diet like. I wasn't allowed to eat anything high in fiber for six weeks, then I had to introduce them slowly. I have unsweeten probiotic yogurt with kefir, foods and drinks low in sugar. Sometimes I sprinkle psyllium husks on my food it helps thicken your bowel movements. Avoid raw vegetables and died fruit.
It's hard we all cope differently, there is no way I want that bag back.