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Upcoming Hernia Surgery

 
Posted: Fri Mar 15, 2019 2:34 pm

I just came from the surgeons office. I have 2 hernias,one on my left side near my ostomy and one on my right side. I saw the surgeon in Aug. 2016. He said he would recomend me losing 35lb if I could. Well I lost 41lb. and he said he can fix them now.  I'm scared to death because he may have to move my ostomy site. I asked him where he would move it to, He said a little higher or possibly to the right side. I have faith in this doctor and he fxed both hernias in 2014 and it took two years before they came back. He has to remove the mesh from the from the last time and can't tell me exactly where the stoma will be moved to until he gets inside. I'm worried that it will be in the way of my clothes. What is the best place for the ostomy? My ostomy can't be reversed because my rectal colon cancer was too low. I've had my ostomy since April of 2011 and if I wasn't in so much pain I would say forget it but I don't think I can wait any longer.

 
Posted: Fri Mar 15, 2019 10:04 pm

I would say you are worried about nothing. I would say your surgeon I a smart guy. Most guys pants are below your navel. Unless your name is Herkel.  As long as it is even with your navel or a hair above I would think you will be good to go. Hang in there, I have had 6 hernias with 4 operations.Have faith in your higher power first and then your doc. You will be ok.  Andy

 
cdm
Posted: Fri Mar 15, 2019 11:42 pm

Thanks,Andy I do tend to worry about everything. I know that the Lord has me in his hands. He hasn't let me down yet. In 2010 I was diagnosed with stage 4 colo rectal cancer that had spread to my liver. In April of 2011 I was operated on and that's when I recieved my ostomy. I guess I'm just a big baby when I have to face surgery. I,m just scared of the unknown.  I feel a little better since you reassured me. By the way my operation is set for April 11th the day before my birthday what a bummer. If I didn't take that date I would have to wait til the end of the month and I was afraid I would chicken out.

 

 
Posted: Sat Mar 16, 2019 2:02 pm

cdm,

  If the surgery was a new one, I would say normally the ET nurse would mark a location on your abdomen where the stoma would fit best.  My ET nurse had me sit down and she used a needle to scratch an "X" for the best spot my stoma would be.

  Everyone is different but according to her, the best placement for a stoma is 2 inches above your belt line.  I know some people prefer it below the belt line, but this has worked best for me and I've been lucky to have never had to have my stoma location moved since my surgery in 95'.

  And I don't care how tough a man or woman is on the outside, we are all big babies on the inside when it comes to surgery.  My girlfriend at the time and my family was there in pre-op and I was doing my best to be strong for them as they sobbed away.  Of course the tears just started flowing and I was scared to death.  But once I was wheeled into the operating room and they injected the good stuff in my IV, I didn't care about shxt...lol

  Just do as you've been doing, keep the faith and God will watch over you.  Keep us informed on how the surgery goes.

Bain

 
Posted: Sat Mar 16, 2019 6:37 pm

Good luck, 

I would certainly focus on the fact you will be pain free! That, in itself will be wonderful! You will get used to wherever the surgeon is able to relocate and it always works out! Easy for me to say, right! 

Prayers for the best outcome! 

Puppyluv 

 
cdm
Posted: Sun Apr 14, 2019 10:52 am

I had my surgery on April 11th. I don't know weather to be happy or sad. Once the surgeon went in laprascopably to look around he said he said there wasn't enough room to move the ostomy so it's still in the same place. The only thing he did was stretch the mesh and close a hole in the mesh that was causing my pain but he said it's only as strong as the stitches. He didn't take out the old mesh or do anything with the other hernia. He said he was sorry but he just couldn't do all that to me because he said it would be too much for me to take. I've had too many surgeries and there is only so much that can be done. I'm not in any pain just sore and having trouble getting up from the bed. Now I'm just waiting  for my ostomy to work properly.

 

 

 
Posted: Sun Apr 14, 2019 9:03 pm

Cdm 

So glad your pain has lessened and now you just need some time to heal from he surgery! I would have though that while he was in there, he would do what he could to repair things! I saw where you posted about swimming! What they don’t know won't hurt Them! I would swim where I felt like it and itnis none of their business. I have a pool in my back yard and am in it every day for hours in the summer. I have never had a pouch fall off! I also cruise and just got back today from one. I use the hot tub and the pool and have never had any problems. There are additional supplies you can use fornyou comfort zone  like barrier strips around you pouch flange. It secures the pouch and most importantly, gives you peace of mind! Go for it! You will be glad you did! 

Puppy

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