I had a LAR with ileostomy in Dec 2018. After the post-surgery chemo, my doctor is pushing for a reversal. Prior to the LAR, I had radio/chemo. It was successful as the pathology report showed that cancer has been downgraded from stage 3b to stage 0. I had 27cm (10.6") removed, which included all my rectum and probably most, if not all, the sigmoid. I also had some burning/scarring in the 'back passage' due to the earlier radio. I've read horror stories from those who have had a reversal and regret it. I don't love my ileo, but I also don't hate it. It's manageable. It scares me wondering if I'll poop my pants all the time with the reversal. I'd like anyone to share pros/cons on getting a reversal. I'm thinking at nearly age 60, maybe it's not worth it.
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