Jeanie, I am with you, I had to learn how to perfect making the bag stay on and I finally did it without any trouble. But it was a challenge for me at first. I shower and dry real good and then I go to my sink and have my supplies and I use stoma powder and the wipe and do that three times then I use the stoma paste and use my fingers to push the bag around until it is on good, then I get a hospital glove and fill it with hot water not to burn but to set my bag. Good to go until my next shower, I guess we all have to find our secrets that work for us. I go in for a colonoscopy this month, I go in on the 20th to get the pills, I am afraid if they find anything that I am stuck with this. I never had any real colon problems except peritonitis from my gallbladder ten years ago. I pray that the blood I used to bleed after my daughter died was from hemorrhoids after meeting a new friend and I did go to nursing school. Now I am scared. I am learning to deal with whatever God puts on my back but I am praying I am healthy for the sake of my husband and two sons. I finally found a way to hide and deal with the bag, but I still want my reversal in October. Jeanie, I guess we all have to learn how to deal with our own bags and how to keep them secure and keep us from rashes and infections, thank God I never had cause it could be any one of us. Thank you Jeanie for always being here to give a helping hand, God bless, love in Christ's name, Jenny.