I have had a colostomy now for 3 years, and for the most part, I have learned to live with it. But I cannot seem to feel confident about myself in front of my husband. He continues to touch me and make love to me like he used to, and tells me that I am still sexy, but every time I stand in front of him naked, I am very conscious. I get uncomfortable when he starts touching me intimately because I am afraid he will accidentally touch my pouch. Does anybody else feel this way, or is it just me? Can anyone suggest something that can improve my self-esteem? It really frustrates my husband, but I cannot help myself.
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