This is my first blog. I signed up for this site a while ago but am getting too frustrated with the way life is going with this thing. And the sad part is I've had it my whole life and still can't get used to it.
IDK just lately I have been more self-conscious of the noises that it makes sometimes, and am trying to pinpoint the type of foods that I'm eating but that's not working.. and then on top of that, even more embarrassing is the smell that comes from it when I use the restroom. IDK what to do. At work, I get so embarrassed and I just end up sitting uncomfortably afraid to use the bathroom..
I think I just need advice and I feel this is the only place to get it.. I have not met anyone in person who I can really talk to about this and hope I can get some good advice or something on this site. Because it's so hard to act normal when physically, we are the opposite of normal. And I know it's bad I look down on myself about this but I guess I just have my back against the wall in options and don't know how to handle it and have no one to talk to about it..
And for a first blog, this is more of a cry for help I'd say, but I'd appreciate some sort of advice or encouragement because, to the people I see every day I put up this facade of being confident and cool, but if they knew who I really was and what I was really like physically, they wouldn't respect me or come to me for advice or even acknowledge me..
Again this is a crazy first blog and I'd really appreciate any feedback on this because it's comforting to know there are other people going through the same thing somewhere in this world, I just haven't met anyone in person..
But again feedback would be great.. Thank you, I'm sure there are a lot of great people on this site that I am excited to speak with.
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