Hi everyone, I had my surgery on 10/30/24, removing 10 inches of my ileum due to a stricture from radiation for ovarian cancer. I had experienced over 2 dozen complete small bowel obstructions over 15 months, and it was getting steadily worse. The stricture diameter was only the size of a pencil at the time of surgery. I am just now learning how to put on a new wafer and 2-piece system. I noticed today when I changed the wafer that the adhesive was quite swollen and white. I had been irrigating the Mia bag several times over the last few days and wonder if that contributed to the deterioration of the wafer. Is it a good idea to irrigate, or should I just change the pouch every other day? Thanks in advance for any suggestions or tips.
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Posted by: Puppyluv56
Hi Deb,
As you can see, the outpouring of love and support from this website will help you to find the strength to lift yourself up and out of your current emotional situation. I am lucky to have my husband by my side through all of this, so I will not even pretend to know how you feel and what you're going through alone. I do know that I have great friends on this site and in my life that have been by my side, and hopefully you have many by your side as well. You do have a lot of new friends here. Please feel free to talk through anything that is on your mind. We all go through a confidence deficit when we go through an ostomy surgery. Our body has been marred and your mind feels that way sometimes too. It is tough to move on, but you will. You will be stronger once you realize that you are still the beautiful woman you were prior to your surgery. Hopefully, you can reach out to a local support group and find some additional friends in your same situation. It always helps to have a sounding board wherever you find it!
Puppyluv
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