My husband and I have been married over 18 years I think 19 I can't remember anymore I have chemo brain and he too tells me that I'm still sexy and that he loves me and sex can wait when I want to do it. but it is me that wants it I was a very sexually driven person and it really really hurts to have sex now, I cannot take Premarin, estrogen or anything hormone based because of the total hysterectomy .... tried the KY stuff it didn't help much. my surgery was May 2 and my last hospital stay was September 1 and it's only been about two weeks since we tried having sex for the first time in over a year. I miss feeling sexy, I miss the way he kissed every inch of me. I just feel like a shell of my former self.
Can anyone tell me if sex will get easier? I want to be able to please my hubby as well as be pleased!
Also is there anyone out there dealing with FAP?
I picked firecracker as my username because everyone has always told tell I was one r fireball - just full of life and gusto and really funny and fun to be around. I want that person back too.