Don't underestimate the lengths a man with go through to be with someone they've fallen in love with. "Lengths" also meaning great distances. I met one of my past girlfriends, who I was ultimately with for 8 years, back in the early days of online chatting. We had chatted online by text for weeks, then started talking on the phone and before we even met in person for the first time, I was pretty certain I was already in love with her. Despite not changing countries or provinces, I still ended up relocating to another city, moving away from the town I had spent most of life in. I was prepared to change my life so I could be with her.
I do believe that for woman it's easier to find men to be with, but finding the right man and one that wants to be with you for the right reasons is more challenging (as we can be shallow with one goal in mind). Realistically, the guy still needs some physical attraction, but that can be so different from one man to another. Some like small ladies, some like ladies you don't feel like you are going to break, some like a big booty, some like a large chest. You really need to put some photo's up if you want to get serious inquires. I should take my own advice, as I am looking only "Half" serious at the moment as I don't have any pictures of me, but my dog (or without sounding bitter, my Ex's dog) has a great head shot! Thankfully we can take digital pictures as getting one acceptable selfie requires about 99 other rejected ones , one broken cell phone and a lot of swearing. :)
If all else fails, then I will let you in on one of my excellent ideas for meeting woman (might work for men too ,but I can't be sure as I've never gave it any thought as I like smooth skin and all the other x-rated stuff woman have to offer) :)
Idea 1: I go to the local library and slip a note with my name, number and "For a Good time call" inside every copy of "50 Shades of Grey" and its sequels!
I've also come up with some smooth dating profiles, however some of my friends seem to think this one might not get the right message across:
Single male, no kids, lives in basement with a cat looking for single female with no kids under 18 and that lives more than 400 meters from any parks or school yards.
(I sure hope you have a sense of humour and can tell when I am joking and when I am not as otherwise I might come across as some sex crazy pedo. I can assure you I am not the later and only in my dream am I the former). :)
You're at a great age to be a cougar. Embrase it. Have some fun. Teach some younger man what a real woman is like! :)