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I'm looking for a friends to talk to. It's really hard to meet someone to date. You'll see why in a bit. I like to go places, but I don't have an accessible vehicle. The last 3 years have been a challenge. My back went out and required surgery. The nerve damage from the back affects the nerves and I keep falling. So bad I need a wheelchair all the time. Now I'm permanently disabled and the back is worsening by the month. Have a large fistula that required a colostomy. Now I've had the pleasure of needing more that the 3 past surgeries to repair the fistula and need more. But wait the colostomy stoma has a significantly large hernia! I have an appt. with another specialist. Hopefully we can get rid of the fistula and the hernia for good. I'm originally from north of Boston. I moved to Florida and absolutely love it. I plan to move back there as soon as I can. I dabble in making jewelry and weaving baskets. What do you like?

I'm a disabled Nurse, thanks to my back! I have a colostomy that likes to keep on going on it's own schedule. Ahhh life with extra baggage! To amuse myself, I make jewelry primarily. But I do a few other crafts also. I love to laugh and try to keep that glass half full. What's your story? I miss dating with men and meeting other people for friendship. I'm wondering how to date someone like me, someone who can really see beyond the chair and my baggage on my belly and get to know me. Any ideas anyone?
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