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i was diagnosed with bladder cancer in march of 2011. i underwent chemo and then in Aug of 2011 my bladder was removed . i am now a urostomate. during my surgery they found a spot on my prostate and removed that too to keep the recurrance minimized. i am dealing with most of that pretty well. the problem i am dealing with is the issue of being half a man. i am 57 and have alot of living to do yet. but going to be a lonely road. I guess i don't expect too much from this site. just trying to find out if there are women out there that can have an honest relationship with a half a man.
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First off, my name's not Esther - It's Kate - but I needed a pseudonym & I thought my toy ...
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I'm going to have Ileostomy surgery soon and want to see what others have gone through.
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I am a woman with a lot of spare time. I've had an illeostomy for 8 years. I am intereste...
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...I am a youthful 59 year old woman, recently relocated back to Atlanta GA from Tampa, FL...
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Since this is all new to me I have a lot of questions about products
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