Hi Lottagelady
I had a strangulated umbilical hernia repaired in an emergency op in 1998 (or 1999...too long ago to remember!) At the time I still had a complete bowel and I've never had any complications from the mesh. I had bowel cancer in 2002 and had a sigmoidectomy which was in no way hampered by the mesh. In 2007 I needed more abdominal surgery (resulting in the loss of my "tummy button") and earlier this year I had the remainder of my bowel removed (this cancer's kind of determined!!) Throughout all of this, the mesh has probably been the only reliable (and certainly the strongest) part of my abdomen.
Since my ileostomy I've had a lot of probems with narrowing, adhesions, hernias and blockages - especially a very large parastomal hernia - which has meant many emergency admissions to hospital. Further surgery on me is very risky, but on my last admission I was told that probably within the next year they will be forced to operate, free the adhesions and repair the hernias. My dream would be to have an complete abdomen made of mesh instead of just one little part of it! Everything nice and safely tucked away where it should be, and something doing the job that my muscles used to do before they were destroyed.
I've never heard of any complications from having mesh, and of course everyone is different - what suits me may not suit someone else - but all I can say is that the mesh has worked well for me for the last 12 years.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
Rosa