
Uggghhhh I'm so confused....I'm too young to become a lonely spinster, but I'm afraid that's what's going to happen to me. If anyone has some ideas I'm open. The last thing I want to do is hi my name is xxxxx and meet my buddy baggy!

I feel for you - the man I was with dumped me after 28 year. But I contributed to it. I got tired of being treat like an unwanted piece of furniture! He can't deal with couples councilling
for the last two years I have been crying all the time at the mere thought of him. Hard to get over someone that was such a huge part of my life. I am 66 and well scarred from numerous revisions etc. Dating? Wow can barely think about hugging someone else not to mention dating!
Judi
I am no different than you I was married 39 years and my husband just passed in Jan so like you I have no idea what the he'll to do and it's true nobody knows what's it like when you are alone or other people look at you weird when you tell them you have a bag I had one guy I knew come over and he knew I had a bag and he brings a friend to do a twosome really so I do know how you feel I think I will be alone a lot longer than you both me and my spouse were police officers who what's and old broad with hand cuffs lol its good to talk to other people like you you have to have a sense of humor take care donna
I know exactly how you feel it socks because unless somebody has the same as you they don't get it the other day a male friend of mine was here to say hi and out of being noise I asked him if he would go out with somebody like us with an illestomy and his reply was no never I asked why he just said it was not his thing and he said all his friends wouldn't either well that made feel real great but I guess if I didn't want the truth I shouldn't of asked so I know just how you feel I'm sorry now I really feel crape donna