"This is the best website for people with an Ostomy, hands down. So much understanding. Everyone should join."
Hello everyone! Well where do I start....both feet in here we go!!! 17 years with the same partner, surgery during that time and reassurance that this is what I needed to do to be healthy. Even words of encouragement like "if I had of known you were going to be this healthy I would have suggested it years ago"......now 9 years later I find myself single 
for totally unrealated reasons and going now what! I've read some of the posts wrt finding someone who doesn't run when they hear about dear baggy and am starting to feel hopeless. Here's my dilemma, there's enough jerks (for a mild term) out there that I don't even want to meet most of them and then what happens if I do meet someone that I want to date, how do you even bring up the topic????
Uggghhhh I'm so confused....I'm too young to become a lonely spinster, but I'm afraid that's what's going to happen to me. If anyone has some ideas I'm open. The last thing I want to do is hi my name is xxxxx and meet my buddy baggy!
Because its visibal as a lump under my tshirt people often ask wtf is that. I tell them its my front bum and I crap in a bag. I guess i,m more out going than some but I never hide it. Its like when you see someone walkin down the street with a nicely shaped butt. I always say to myself nice arse. Well why can't we say hey nice bag, god knows its kept us going, and eliminates the need to sit of those disgusting public toilets. Don't fret sotfncuddly, your man will come along, and when he does, be up front with it. At least you will know right away the ones that are worth pursuing and those that need the flick. good luck with it 
and it also soon windles out the men that arnt worth your time....xx
caos calling yes the last 4 i am agreeing with cause i cant really come up with my own. there is a bit of my thoughtS in here prob all really HEY JJ MA GIRL SO GLAD U R BACK IN TOWN NEED YOU HEHEHHE
