For some reason, I woke up in an unusually good mood and positive attitude this morning for a long time, probably because I decided to join this site last night. Even though I have not received any messages or replies from anyone yet, I still feel more confident than I ever had since my surgery that I will soon meet some nice people who may be able to help me cope with living my life with an ileostomy in a more positive way. We all know that each person's own personal life experiences are always better and more informing than just reading the thousands of books or other literature that is out there. So I am impatiently hoping and waiting to soon meet some new friends and/or mentors on this site who might be able to help me look at my situation in a different positive light. Because the way that I have been living my life for the last 3 years since my surgery has not been very positive or productive towards my own personal happiness and ultimate recovery. I always knew sites like this existed, but until last night, I never had the courage to join because I have basically been wallowing in my own self-pity, which, as we all know, will get you nowhere fast, except in a deeper and deeper hole of depression, and that is truly not the way I want to go on living my life. I guess the whole point of this blog is to announce my newfound courage and curiosity to become an online member of the ostomy community that is out there for anyone who is willing to take the time and make the effort to seek them out, even though it is a very scary leap of faith for me. But the way I look at it, I can't get any more rejection from the non-ostomy population in the world that I have gotten so far, so this is the next logical step in my attempt to get my head straight and wrapped around all of the permanent changes that I will have to get used to if I plan on starting to live some type of fulfilling life again. Well, I'm signing off for now, and I hope to hear from someone with the possibility of making some new friends who have this whole living with an ileostomy thing in common with me. Goodbye and God bless. Signing off for today... Bigdaddydave.
Why Join MeetAnOstoMate?
First off, this is a pretty cool site with 33,466 members. Get inside and you will see.
It's not all about ostomy. Everything is being discussed.
Many come here for advice or to give advice 🗣, others have found good friends 🤗, and there are also those who have found love 💓. Most of all, people are honest and truly care.
Privacy is very important - the website has many features that are only visible to members.
Create an account and you will be amazed.
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