In 2008, at the age of 20, I inherited a neurological disorder that caused 15 daily BMs and a constant fecal smell. Other than nerve problems of the internal sphincter, my health and fitness were excellent.
In July 2013, I got an elective sigmoid colostomy. I still smell like feces and have been severely bloated since surgery. I'm very lean and barely eating, but I have a huge stomach most of the time. It's extremely uncomfortable, to the point where I can barely sleep at night. I irrigate twice a day just to get some relief from the pressure. At this point, I'm willing to do anything to end the intense discomfort, which is so bad I almost can't sit still.
The surgeon who did the ostomy got an x-ray and said that there was no torsion/obstruction, and that constipation is common with sigmoids. I was never constipated before the ostomy, and sitz marker tests show normal motility. But basically, at this point, there's no way I can handle solid output, and can't stand the 24-hour transit time from meal to output.
I'm seriously considering going to the Mayo Clinic for a second opinion and to discuss switching to an ascending colostomy or ileo, to get liquid output. Some sources say ileos are preferable because the smaller size makes liquid easier to manage, but ascending colos are much less prone to blockages.
Can anyone recommend one or the other? Has anyone gone from left-side colo to right-side or ileo? Are any of you ileostomates severely bloated?
Please let me know. I need the pain to end.
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In both of my cases, I had no choice. It was surgery or be put 6 feet under! I thank God that He has been with me all these times. Without Him, I never would have known what to do and might not have gone to the hospital when I did. I don't know if you have had your surgery or not yet but I hope you will hang out on this website when you are done. I have learned a great deal through the people here and it is so great having others who have had the same thing done and been through what you are about to or have gone through. The only thing I have turned down is a reversal of the ileostomy. When the doctors did the emergency rebuilding of my original ileostomy this last February, I told them I did not want to go through this again. My doctor told me at that time that I was no longer a candidate for the reversal. In a way, I was very relieved. The last three years of my life have been a nightmare for me. I do not want to go through any of it again. If you wish to be rehooked up and they say you are a good choice for that, research it carefully. Every surgery I have ever had except for Old and New Maxine and the emergency surgery on my broken foot, I have spent weeks researching. I recently had my C5 C6 disk in my neck replaced with an artificial one. I went to my pre-op with 2 pages of questions for the doctor. I knew everything that they were going to do and could talk intelligently with them. I always try to research my adversaries! Don't cancel your surgery. It is nice not to have to suffer any longer with horrible pain. We all had to change a few things around when we had our surgeries but in the long run, most of us are glad we did it. I know I am. Good luck to you!
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