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Im a 57 year old gay man.
Not the tallest at 5’ nothing, lol
i had surgery, 4/5/18 for iliostomy and a closed butt, the bag is permanent
The biggest surprise to me was/is the pain caused with surgery on my butt. 7 weeks later my ass is so painful its still hard to sit down, im sitting side saddle, lol
I returned to work in July

All I can think about is having my quality of life back as I was tired of spending so much time on the loo
As you can imagine,
Try contacting me on victorbainbridge at hotmail dot com
I’d really like to make new friends locally and not so locally, lol

I do have a few questions
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