Meet & talk to fellow OstoMates Support | Friendship | Dating 21,173 members

Zywie
member

About
(April 2014) Thought I'd change my profile since I've been here for a few months. I'm fairly easy on the eyes. When I'm not being angry about this stoma - I'm pretty nice to be around. :) I'm as intelligent as I want to be. I don't like to exercise, but I love to swim. My weight goes up and down with the tide.

I am a gamer - no that does not mean I like to play cards or board games. It means I play console games and online games. MMO - not so much RPG. Although I am pretty competitive at chess. I don't like animals. I don't want to get married again. Would be nice to have a partner in crime - but am doing fine on my own. I don't want to raise children - already done that and it almost put me under. They are grown and I am pushing them to be independent of me. (Even though they tried to impress upon me how independent they were as teenagers.) I don't think I could ride a motorcycle again, unless it's one of those cushy, luxury ones - and then, what's the point? I'm willing to try anything, just not sure what this body will allow.

I am not a paying member so I can not message you, but I am told I can answer. I am in general chat on and off and I check forum topics regularly.

(July 2014) MUST ADD AFTER REVIEWING: I am not religious. In talking with a friend recently I discovered I am a Christian Agnostic. :) So, a lot of you gentlemen's profiles look great but you either exercise too much or are too religious for me. Oh yea, separated and married status freaks me out looking for relationships. Not that I really think I'm going to meet anyone here, but just in case thought you should know these things. Also, I will not use my cam to chat unless I know you well; and even then is "iffy" depending on what I look like and how I feel on that day.

HAPPY HUNTING !

History: February 2009 started having issues I was told were hemorrhoids. December 2010 was diagnosed with anal cancer, stage 2 advanced. January through February 2011 -chemo/radiation treatments. Have some issues from the treatments but nothing earth-shattering. May 2013 started bleeding again. June 2013 was told the cancer was back and only remedy was this stupid surgery. July 2013 had this stupid surgery and have regretted it every minute of every day since.
Other Members
m, 71
I had my colostomy in January 2012. I had a bad experience with anal cancer in 2005 and ...
Oregon, United States
f, 56
i am 45 yrs old. i am a positive person. married 21 and a half years. with two young teen...
Nevada, United States
f, 69
I would like to have someone nice to talk to. Someone who would like to have a friend as ...
California, United States
m, 61
I had a radical ileostomy with complete removal of the rectum back in October 1992 because...
Ohio, United States
f, 38
I would like to meet people who have gone through similar experiences. It would be nice t...
Ontario, Canada
Currently online: 8    
1 members & 7 visitors
 
 
Welcome to MeetAnOstoMate - the largest online community for people with an ostomy.
If you have questions or just want to meet and chat with others, join us and enjoy our great community.