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Im a 57 year old gay man.
Not the tallest at 5ā€™ nothing, lol
i had surgery, 4/5/18 for iliostomy and a closed butt, the bag is permanent
The biggest surprise to me was/is the pain caused with surgery on my butt. 7 weeks later my ass is so painful its still hard to sit down, im sitting side saddle, lol
I returned to work in July

All I can think about is having my quality of life back as I was tired of spending so much time on the loo
As you can imagine,
Try contacting me on victorbainbridge at hotmail dot com
Iā€™d really like to make new friends locally and not so locally, lol

I do have a few questions
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