Meet & talk to fellow OstoMates Support | Friendship | Dating 21,175 members

Ostomy Memories of Heaven & Hell

Posted by HenryM, on Thu Aug 27, 2020 8:14 am

Her name was Wendy but I called her Heaven. She liked that. Her green eyes would light up and I would see the light of a perfect future shining out, washing over me, caressing me. Everything about her oval face was the way it ought to be: her small, slightly freckled nose turned up slightly, and her lips – what can I say about those lips? “Don’t tell your parents that I call you Heaven, okay? They might think I’m some kind of weirdo.” I could see that she understood completely. After a couple of dates, we started making out. I couldn’t believe what a good kisser she was. Soon it progressed to more advanced exploration. This is real love, I thought. I was beginning to get carried away. I forgot about my ostomy completely which, in retrospect, amazes me. Love can turn a person upside down. Our hands were exploring each other. I felt her fingers go down inside my shorts. “What’s this?” she exclaimed, pulling her hand away. My heart missed a beat. I tried to tell her what it was. “Eww,” she wheezed. My Heaven had turned to Hell. But all was not lost. The following month, I met the girl I’d marry. We just celebrated anniversary number fifty-two. Now that’s Heaven.

Reply by Padfoot, on Thu Aug 27, 2020 9:42 am

A great lesson in what is real vs what is fantasy. When looking for a mate, best to look in the deep end, rather than the shallow end of the pool. Sounds like your wife is an exceptionally strong swimmer. Congratulations on 52 years with Mrs Right.


Reply by w30bob, on Thu Aug 27, 2020 8:58 pm

Ohhh, oh, oh, oh.........she felt your ostomy bag!  Now I get it. I was thinking she said "Ewwww" after grabbing something else in bad.  Sorry about that!  Good for you Henry!!  Funny how when one door closes another opens.  Until we get to that last door...................



Reply by delgrl525, on Fri Aug 28, 2020 5:42 pm

Hi Henry,  So glad you found your "keeper" and didn't have to repeat that kind of experience.



* Please, do not post contact information like email, Facebook or Twitter accounts, or phone number. These will be removed by the Administrator.
All times are GMT - 4 Hours
Currently online: 7    
1 members & 6 visitors
htoor (f)
Welcome to MeetAnOstoMate - the largest online community for people with an ostomy.
If you have questions or just want to meet and chat with others, join us and enjoy our great community.