Hi everyone, I've joined this forum hopefully to get advice for my dad. I would like to know if it is common to receive a colostomy pouch after surgery to remove one of his kidneys? He had the operation through keyhole surgery. They told him after the first surgery that everything went well and he was really happy. Then he started to suffer with severe pains, etc., and went back to the hospital. This was a good few weeks after the operation. They ran a CT scan, etc., and found he had a blockage and he needed emergency surgery to fix it, which resulted in a section of bowel being removed and the need for a colostomy pouch (reversible). Just before the second operation to fix the blockage, the hospital where he had the first surgery rang to tell him he needed to go back to the hospital urgently, as they had re-looked at his notes and found there were complications during the first surgery. He's obviously upset and I was just looking for advice on if it is common or not. Thanks, sorry the info is vague but I'm not well informed on all the facts at the moment. Any help or answers would be really appreciated.
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Posted by: iMacG5
About seven years ago, just about every aspect of my life was ostomy related. From the moment I was told an ostomy might be needed until some months down the road I existed as a person afflicted with a colostomy. I feared someone other than my immediate family might find out I had a bag. Ugh! What could be worse? Suppose it filled real fast when I was out with no place to hide and take care of myself. God forbid should it leak in church! Suppose I roll over on it in bed. I was a lesser creature, destined to a life of emotional anguish and physical routines different from most of the rest of the world. I felt like a freak. Then I found folks like you guys here, read your stuff, really “listened” to what you had to say and I began looking at things differently. We know perception is everything and I began to understand how good things were relative to what they could’ve been. So many folks had it so much worse than I did. That didn’t make my discomfort go away but it exposed how fortunate I was to be dealing with my stuff and not their’s. I felt a little guilt, maybe selfishness but quickly forgave myself by understanding I just wasn’t smart enough to fix my feelings. Then, I wonder what smarts have to do with feelings. My perception was warped so my perspective toward my existence was warped.
I learned over the last few years with the help of lots of folks right here at MAO that I could be better at living just by accepting some facts. It is what it is and so what? It’s not the worst thing to happen to a person.
I think everything is, in some way, related to everything else. I just put the ostomy thing in the back seat and drive forward.
Respectfully,
Mike
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