Hello,
I live with a loop end ileostomy at the moment, and I am struggling to live my life and leave the house. Every day, I am suffering from mucus leaks and having to wash myself twice a day to manage the leaking and try to prevent skin infections and irritation in the area. I have been seeing the stoma nurse, who seems to have provided me with everything available under the NHS, which is usually anal plugs, liners, antiseptic washing liquids, etc. I find it incredibly uncomfortable to use the plugs, and none of the other options are solutions to actually stopping the mucus, nor are they effective methods to collect it. As a result, I am often seeing the GP for recurring skin infections and having to take antibiotics when I eventually need them.
I have an appointment with my GI consultant in a few weeks, and I am considering asking for a total colectomy (complete removal of the large bowel). This is seen as major surgery, and it appears that they generally avoid this surgery, although nothing is going to the large bowel given that I live with an ileostomy. I wanted to ask for your advice and hear your experiences of living with a Barbie butt, as this would be a huge decision for me to make. Unfortunately, there doesn't appear to be another solution on the table, as the mucus is forming balls that are getting stuck internally.
My questions are as follows:
Does the mucus ever stop? Have you found anything that reduces it?
Do you have a better solution for managing the mucus leaks? I am looking for some DIY solutions here, as it doesn't seem like there is anything medically further that I haven't been offered.
Has anyone had a total colectomy/'Barbie butt' surgery? What has been your experience of life after the surgery? Are there any further complications that weren't explained to you prior? I live with the usual fatigue and phantom rectum sensations that come with living with a stoma, but I am cautious not to undergo another surgery without understanding all future implications on my life.
I appreciate any help or advice from the community!